How can I fix my sex life with my partner? We used to have sex often and were very passionate but he was cheating on me the whole time and we’re working through it but now he doesn’t even like to be intimate with me anymore. When he kisses me he just presses his lips up like he doesn’t want to, he doesn’t ever compliment me anymore, and he just straight up refuses to have sex with me ever. I am starting to feel more like his friend than his girlfriend I’m not sure what to do because I’m worried he may be cheating on me again. It’s been 3 months and we haven’t been intimate in any way and his ways of kissing me or complimenting me hasn’t changed at all. We were intimate twice after I found out but it all just stopped out of no where. I’ve asked him why before and he says he just doesn’t feel good about himself but that never really stopped him before.. he’s completely cut me off and when I tell him I feel more like a roommate/friend than a girlfriend he tries to turn it around on me.

Is it okay to ask my boyfriend not to play a certain video game? I am very supportive of him having his own hobbies one included unwinding and playing video games with his friends. But we recently went through something (he cheated) and we’re trying to work through it and this certain game( final fantasy) he hasn’t played in a while is a trigger for me because he used to play this game with the woman he cheated on me with. He says he’s only playing it now because his friend wants him to play and there’s an event going on in the game but I feel like he might be talking to this certain woman again especially since he’s playing this game now. He plays many other games but it was just very sudden and he didn’t give me any type of heads up

Why do I feel nothing during sex and have near to no desire for it? I did have some experiences growing up where before them I had a normal sexual response but over time developed no feelings around the subject. But it was so long ago and not that severe I don’t think it could affecting my sexual response now. Any other ideas? Or ways to solve this? It’s affecting my relationship with my BF where he has now told me he doesn’t want to discuss the topic at all so looking for help to solve it.

My fiancé and I have been together for 7 years. The first 3 years of our relationship we had the best sex life and intimacy. Then as time went on with stress and school and work, we have less sex, then it got to the point where we stopped having sex. We occasionally try but lately he hasn’t been able to get hard or keep an erection. He says it’s not me and that he gets too in his head. It’s starting to take a toll on us and we don’t don’t what do.

I cheated on my girlfriend when I say cheat I was messaging a girl and kissed her twice on a night out this happened over the course of 2 weeks, I then realised Wtf am I doing and cut things off, she then messaged my girlfriend ss of the messages and told my girlfriend about the kiss. My girlfriend wants nothing to do with me and I am now blocked on everything. I genuinely love my girlfriend and I don’t know why I did this, I need your help can I get my girlfriend back and why did i do this when I love her….