What are the healthy signs to look out for?
Hi, I dated a man who hated his mom but made excuses for her bad behavior toward me..had a baby with him, and in turn hates me and teaching our daughter, 16 yo, to hate me. But he is currently married and just had another baby girl. And still treats to flirt with me by asking if we can go to the gym together and text me inappropriately. I shut him down and kept things business (co-parenting only). Next, I dated a man who loved his mother, and his mother treated me amazingly. But when we have issues, he instructs me not to discuss our issues with his family, which I don't. Yet he packs up his things and always goes back to live with his mother when times get tough for us. My question is, I thought I was avoiding the signs by being with someone who has a great relationship with their mom, but I still ended up getting two types of mama boys. What are the healthy signs to look out for?