Relationship Strength

Hi, every time I want to express my feelings to my partner( lesbian relationship) I feel to tend like a burden. She shuts down, ignores me, solution is to break up or she feels as if my feelings are bashing her. Also the day my life hit rock bottom and I needed her the most she always seems to busy and I feel neglected. I’m not asking for financial help just support, love, communication and time. I guess my question is how do you handle this? I know have been waiting for a week for a phone call and every time I send a text like hey it seems you don’t have time for me etc she in one breath says why don’t or didn’t I just call in the next it’s I’m busy and tired from work! I’m trying to be considerate but I too have feelings and needs

Can you help with a partners porn addiction? Hiding it secretly from usb to a second phone, he feels I’m always checking him but it’s because there’s always something and he always lies. Your thoughts on porn addiction in a relationship?

So I have a bf and me and him get into a lot of arguments which can be really stressful, But everytime I wanna tell him how I feel or say what’s on my mind he gets mad and says why u always tryna argue what do I do?

I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years. He has cheated multiple times online threwout the years. I got pregnant last year. We sat and had an honest talk and he said he wouldn't hurt me and he wanted a family with me. Two weeks before I had my baby I found out he was paying girls to video chat with him almost on the daily for 2 years. I had my baby I pushed everything aside so we could enjoy having a newborn. I've recently been bringing it up now that I'm in a place to process my feelings. I should add while he video chatted these girls I was most likely sending him text so he would disregard me and continue to be unfaithful online. He is now telling me he has changed and he will never do it again. Having our baby has woken him up he says and he realizes he's been selfish and wants to change. I'm struggling with if I should give him another chance to show me he has changed or if I should leave. I've never loved someone like I have him. But my feelings are also starting to change a little but I still feel love for him. I dont think i can forgive him for what he did. I don't want to break up our family. I grew up in a broken home and didn't want that for my daughter.