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5 Areas a man needs to build to attract & keep a good woman
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5 Areas a man needs to build to attract & keep a good woman
Building a healthy relationship requires consistent effort and nurturing. While there are numerous practices that contribute to a strong and thriving relationship, here are three fundamental practices that can greatly enhance the quality of your partnership:
1. Effective Communication: Open and honest communication is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship. It involves actively listening to your partner, expressing your thoughts and feelings in a respectful manner, and being receptive to their perspective. Practice clear and direct communication, sharing both your joys and concerns. Regularly check in with each other to maintain a deep understanding of each other's needs, desires, and boundaries. Remember that communication is a two-way street, so strive to be a good listener as well.
2. Mutual Respect and Empathy: A healthy relationship is built on a foundation of mutual respect and empathy. Treat your partner with kindness, courtesy, and consideration. Acknowledge and validate their feelings, experiences, and opinions, even when you disagree. Cultivate empathy by trying to understand their perspective and placing yourself in their shoes. Respect their autonomy and support their individual growth and goals. By fostering an environment of respect and empathy, you create a safe and nurturing space for both partners to flourish.
3. Prioritizing Quality Time and Connection: Spending quality time together and nurturing your emotional connection is vital for a healthy relationship. In our busy lives, it's crucial to set aside dedicated time for each other, free from distractions. Engage in activities that you both enjoy and find meaningful, whether it's going on dates, having deep conversations, or pursuing shared hobbies. Show affection, both verbally and physically, to strengthen your emotional bond. Regularly check in with each other's emotional well-being and provide support when needed. By making your relationship a priority, you reinforce the sense of love and connection between you.
Remember, building a healthy relationship takes time, patience, and effort from both partners. These practices can serve as a solid foundation, but every relationship is unique, so adapt and evolve these practices based on your specific dynamics and needs.
Building a healthy relationship requires consistent effort and nurturing. While there are numerous practices that contribute to a strong and thriving relationship, here are three fundamental practices that can greatly enhance the quality of your partnership:
1. Effective Communication: Open and honest communication is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship. It involves actively listening to your partner, expressing your thoughts and feelings in a respectful manner, and being receptive to their perspective. Practice clear and direct communication, sharing both your joys and concerns. Regularly check in with each other to maintain a deep understanding of each other's needs, desires, and boundaries. Remember that communication is a two-way street, so strive to be a good listener as well.
2. Mutual Respect and Empathy: A healthy relationship is built on a foundation of mutual respect and empathy. Treat your partner with kindness, courtesy, and consideration. Acknowledge and validate their feelings, experiences, and opinions, even when you disagree. Cultivate empathy by trying to understand their perspective and placing yourself in their shoes. Respect their autonomy and support their individual growth and goals. By fostering an environment of respect and empathy, you create a safe and nurturing space for both partners to flourish.
3. Prioritizing Quality Time and Connection: Spending quality time together and nurturing your emotional connection is vital for a healthy relationship. In our busy lives, it's crucial to set aside dedicated time for each other, free from distractions. Engage in activities that you both enjoy and find meaningful, whether it's going on dates, having deep conversations, or pursuing shared hobbies. Show affection, both verbally and physically, to strengthen your emotional bond. Regularly check in with each other's emotional well-being and provide support when needed. By making your relationship a priority, you reinforce the sense of love and connection between you.
Remember, building a healthy relationship takes time, patience, and effort from both partners. These practices can serve as a solid foundation, but every relationship is unique, so adapt and evolve these practices based on your specific dynamics and needs.
I have been with my husband for 10 years, married for 5, we have 4 kids together. Since the beginning of our relationship I have always felt I valued and loved him more than he does me. He works away for 20 days at a time and home for 10 since the beginning. He has been caught several times since the beginning of our relationship looking at escorts, other women on Facebook, etc. I always bought his excuses and let him get away with it. 5 years into our relationship I was unfaithful, and I couldn’t live with the bad decision I made and told him and said I would leave the relationship if that’s what he wanted, he begged me to stay, so I’ve spent 4.5 yrs since then going to therapy for myself, working on our relationship and myself to be better for us, as a partner and wife, and mother. Over these past 4 years he has done nothing but continue to be shady, lie, delete texts, stay out at bars till 3am and lie to me about it, cross boundaries I have set… I am fed up from crying and asking for changed behaviour for one year consistently now, is it worth it to try and stay and wait for him to change or do I risk wasting another 10 years of my life…
hello after our meeting yesterday of you telling me how to approach my boyfriend about quality time lead by love and make it about us not about me so he don’t feel attacked because that bonding is important to our relationship what if after approaching him that way asking him what he would do is anything special he have in mind that both of us can do together and if so when will he like us to do it and what time while i know his gaming is important to him and i respect that us having that quality to bond is very important for our relationship because it’s special and i don’t us to lose that and his answer is i don’t what i want to do and we’ll figure it out something how to i respond to that because then i’m confused if he’s not sure what he wants to do i feel like i’m stuck and i don’t want to say anything that will start an argument which won’t resolve anything
Me and my boyfriend have been talking since May. At first we were only being sexual with each other and had a great friend relationship. Feelings started to get involved and now we are together. We did build that friendship first and this is the most communicative and vulnerable I have ever been in any relationship I’ve ever been in! I feel like his communication is a little less mature than mines and he tends to shut down very quick when some conversations get uncomfortable or doesn’t seem to be getting anywhere. I have definitely tried to see it from his point of view and try to explain it from mines, but he never understands me and I end up never getting my point across cause he wants to “change the subject.” Due to a lot of sexual abuse as a child, I have been diagnosed with ptsd, short term and long term memory loss, bipolar depression, severe anxiety, and other thing. With all of this being said, I find it weird that I can communicate and be this for him and it’s so hard for him to be that for me!